Two Kinds of Love in the Story of the Paralyzed Man

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Two kinds of love operate in the story of the paralyzed man. One kind of love is inclusive and redemptive, the other is exclusive and destructive. Which kind of love will prove victorious?

How to cite this article: JP Staff Writer, “Two Kinds of Love in the Story of the Paralyzed Man,” Jerusalem Perspective (2025)
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Many JP readers have known the story of the paralyzed man since Sunday School (Matt. 9:2-8; Mark 2:1-12; Luke 5:17-26).[1] The memorable image of the men digging a hole through the roof of the house and lowering their friend down on his bed before the feet of Jesus in order to bypass the crowds captures the imagination. As the story unfolds, Jesus declares that the paralyzed man’s sins are forgiven, but some bystanders accuse Jesus of speaking blasphemy. Yet, when Jesus commands the paralyzed man to get up, take his mat and walk, and the paralyzed man miraculously obeys, Jesus’ critics are confounded, and the crowds acclaim Jesus as their hero.

So familiar are the details of the story that we can easily forget to ask what motives, convictions and aims are behind the strange responses of Jesus to the unusual behavior of the paralyzed man and his friends, and of his critics to Jesus’ seemingly innocuous proclamation of forgiveness. Why was Jesus so nonchalant about the friends’ destruction of other people’s property? What was really at stake in the tussle over the forgiveness of sins? Is the most important lesson of the story that Jesus is the Son of Man, who has authority to forgive sins?[2] Or does the story intend to reorient the reader’s perceptions and behaviors in a particular direction?

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Mosaic in the Basilica of Sant’Apollinare Nuovo depicting the healing of the paralyzed man. Photograph © José Luiz Bernardes Ribeiro. Image courtesy of Wikimedia Commons.

  • [1] Luke’s version of the story describes the man as being παραλελυμένος (paralelūmenos; Luke 5:18), which could mean that the man was incapable of voluntary movement (i.e., paralyzed), but could also mean more generally that he was weakened from sickness and therefore unable to walk. The Markan and Matthean versions of the story are more explicit in referring to the man as a παραλυτικός (paralūtikos, “paralytic”; Matt. 9:2; Mark 2:3). Because the designation “paralyzed man” is most familiar, this is how we will refer to the sick man in the story, without, however, excluding the possibility that the man was merely bedridden and not paralyzed in the strict sense of the word.
  • [2] For this view, consult standard commentaries.

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  1. I do not find some of the main points of this article to be convincing, because it does not handle the rhetorical crux of the story. The article’s account fails to explain why or how Jesus connects forgiveness with the healing and why he specifically asked: “Is it easier to say ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or ‘Stand up and walk’?”

    The article’s argument also hinges on a questionable reading of ὁ υἱὸς τοῦ ἀνθρώπου (the son of man), suggesting that it has generic reference, that it refers to any or every man: ‘people have authority to forgive’. That such a grammatically definite (arthrous) noun phrase in Greek can indeed have generic reference is clear in other contexts, such as Mat 8:20: ‘The-foxes (αἱ ἀλώπεκε) have dens’. But given how Jesus elsewhere in the Synoptics uses ὁ υἱὸς τοῦ ἀνθρώπου to refer to himself, including in Mat 8:20, Mat 10:23, etc. interpretating ὁ υἱὸς τοῦ ἀνθρώπου here in the story as ‘people’ (every or any person) is doubtful.

    In my response here I don’t mean to detract from the many interesting points in this article about the two types of love and the fact that on other occasions in his ministry Jesus taught about the importance of people forgiving (and loving) each other and even their enemies. But this article fails to convince me that this is a point of the story.

    Instead, I think it’s much more likely that this story assumes that there is a type of forgiveness that God alone can do, and that Jesus was teaching that he, in his role as the Son of Man, could do that. By healing the man, Jesus proves that he could also forgive, and by proving that he can forgive, he proves that he shares something unique with God. This analysis requires that we recognize that there are different senses of “forgive” or types of “forgiveness” in the Bible, something that our English vocabulary may obscure.

    That there are different types of “forgiveness” is suggested by the range of Hebrew vocabulary, like nāsā’, kippēr, sālaħ/nislaħ and the different metaphors used to talk forgiveness (e.g., washing, covering, forgetting, and wiping away). And, just as importantly, there are clear patterns in Scripture for who can do what. I assume that such a nuanced understanding of forgiveness is what is behind the Pharisees’ assumption that God alone can truly forgive sins or fully undo their results.

    One of the more common verbs for ‘forgive’ is nāsā’, which is based on the idea that sins can be ‘carried’ or ‘borne’. In Scripture this can be a way of talking about forgiveness as well as punishment. In a negative sense, a person who bears his own sins (or guilt for a sin) is bearing the corresponding punishment for the sin (EXO 28:43, LEV 5:1 etc.). In a positive sense, nāsā’ is used to refer to forgiveness in very generic terms. Both God and people can be the agent of nāsā’, but it is easy to imagine that there can be a difference. In Gen 50, the brothers tell Joseph that one of Jacob’s final requests is that Joseph forgives (nāsā’) his brothers. Joseph is asked to bear their faults, which we can interpret variously as to not hold their crime against them and/or to act as if they had never done it. But of course Joseph still knows what they did. And even though he ‘forgave’ them, they may have still felt guilty.

    Similarly, in the New Testament we are commanded to ‘forgive’ one anothers’ sins; the idiom used in the NT is often ‘release’ (ἀφίημι) as when a debt is released. We can forgive another person’s sins in the sense of releasing that person’s debt and ceasing to require it to be paid back. But for humans that doesn’t necessarily erase what they have done before God (perhaps they are still guilty before God) nor does that make us forget what they have done.

    But in the Bible God is able to forgive sins in a way that permanently erases the effects or record in a total way. To recognize this fact is simply to recognize that God can do things that people cannot do. The totality of forgiveness is alluded to by metaphors like ‘wiping away’ (PSA 51:3-4) or causing to disappear (JER 50:20) or when the all-knowing God paradoxically says he will never again remember the people’s sin/guilt (PSA 25:7). Nāsā’ as well can presumably refer to total forgiveness if God is the agent. But people, on their own, unless God share’s his authority and power, cannot cause or declare another person’s sins to be as if they never existed. We don’t have that power.

    The qal verb sālaħ (and the corresponding nif’al form), in fact, explicitly refers to what God alone can do. In every occurrence in the Bible, God is the explicit or implicit agent of this verb; never is man the agent (a point underscored by Milgrom in his Leviticus commentary). The verb features especially in Leviticus in the context of kippēr (wiping out sin). So, for me, this appears to be what is behind the way the Pharisees’ accusation. Like the English verb ‘forgive’, so ἀφίημι is ambiguous (i.e., semantically ‘underspecified’). But if Jesus were speaking Hebrew and used sālaħ, or if by means of some other phrase Jesus referred to an absolute and complete type of forgiveness, the Pharisees could easily construe Jesus’ statement as a claim that he could forgive sins in a way that God alone could do. That Jesus can heal the man, instantly, there on the spot, supports his claim that the Son of Man can undo the effects of and erase the sins done by the man (sins that the man presumably did not commit against Jesus but against God or another). Sālaħ is in fact the very verb that Delitzsch used in his translation of this story in the Synoptics.
    — Nicholas Bailey

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